Relationships....

Why do we commit or attempt to commit when we know it usually ends in a complete disaster, why? I can't even begin to answer that question, I don't think anyone knows why, well actually I do know why, but that's for a later time.

Valentines Day just passed and I don't think one person involved with 501 enjoyed that day. You see, this ridiculous "holiday" is completely controlled by the card companies and the jewelery companies. Commercials, print ads, radio commercials, pop-ups, spam mail, internet ads, are all ploys to get a man to BUY their product. They actually try and make you feel guilty for not getting any of it, they have completely brainwashed the female gender into thinking their way!

Never in 501's experience has V-Day ever gone successful. Either she is so happy with you and the night is "perfect", or she's hurt and unimpressed on how far the man went for her. What ever she picks, you still dropped an absurd amount of money and from the beginning was reluctant to do so. Clearly a catch 22.

What good comes out of this day anyway? It is 5 days since V-Day and 501 along with several of its members are no longer with their "valentines". So tell me what good is V-Day if things don't work out regardless of that "special" holiday? It's not like the scale of "things I do good vs things I do bad" tips to the good side any way. So then why do we do it? What's the point, it's not like we can even begin to rationalize a woman's thought process. Complicated is not even the start of it all.

Granted we're not as simple as we try and make our selves seem, but I think we do a little bit of a better job at it. You see, we might not know what we want in a woman, however women don't know what they want in most categories, so that just might pan out evenly. Now, I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just saying we might have something perfect in front of us and pass on it for the exact opposite, but continue to state that we are looking for someone like the previous woman. Sometimes we just want to be alone and linger out there and not have additional obligations to tend to everyday, but to enjoy the time spent with that someone. Sometimes we just don't want to argue anymore, sometimes we want to move FAR away just to do something different, and sometimes we're just to scared to see the future. That's life, sometimes we all make mistakes, but we do learn from them.


I don't know...